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Defeating Delays
By: Dr. Donald E. Wetmore
We all encounter delays that keep us from
doing what we planned to do. Life is often what happens to you along the
way when you are planning otherwise.
We can be delayed in traffic, waiting for
the dentist, in an airport, or in a line at the bank or elsewhere. You
cannot always control what happens to you out there, but you can
exercise control over how it will impact you. You do not have to let
delays defeat you.
I offer you six tips to defeat those
delays.
- Dont
get frazzled. A lot of people use their delay time for being crazy.
Look around when you are delayed and see how others are reacting.
They may be screaming, hitting the steering wheel, and flailing
about. They are fulfilling their crazy time. When your flight is
delayed or you are stuck in traffic, the delay is upon you and there
is little you can do about. There is much you can do to avoid being
caught up in a similar delay in the future, but for now, when you
are delayed, you are delayed. Your being upset about it, telling
yourself that this should not be happening, only makes a bad
situation worse. You are not only delayed but are unhappy too. Your
unhappiness will not make the delay shorter.
- Bring
important projects with you. Always have stuff with you that you can
work on if you experience an unexpected delay. Perhaps a work
project or two, some business reading, your laptop, or the envelopes
for your Christmas card list. If you get delayed, it gives you the
option of making what could be wasted time, productive time.
- Bring
an unread book or two. 95% of the books people purchase are never
completed. Why? Because we dont have the time to read. If your
flight is delayed for three hours, you can read a lot of pages in
that book you purchased but never seemed to have the time to read.
- Bring
your telephone contact list. Think ahead of where you are going and
ask yourself what telephone numbers would be useful if you were
delayed. Friends? Family? Business associates? Your travel agent?
Make sure you have these telephone numbers with you so when you get
delayed, if you can access a telephone, you give yourself more
choices to be productive.
- Bring
some entertainment. What do you like? Are you into crossword
puzzles? Crafts? Game Boy video games. If you are prepared for it,
delay time can be playtime.
- Sit
and think. In our hurry-up-world we have little time just to think
about our lives, where we have been, where we are now, and where we
are going. Use delay time to reflect upon your life and celebrate
the good things that are happening and commit to changing what needs
to be improved.
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